It's that season to cake up or break up. As people we know what we want, but once we get it can we handle it? I know when it comes to relationships, I know what I want. I date men who inspire me to become better and vice versa.The men I date have to be passionate about their pursuits and love to have a good time. They have to know how to treat a woman and do the simple things a gentlemen is suppose to do for a lady. Each relationship is a learning and growing process and I'm thankful for all the moments good or bad.
I've had my share of "talking" to people and being in "relationships" as well. I used to believe that women can do it better when it came down to playing games. My verdict is true, women do it better in many aspects. But, men know how to take our hearts and leave us so emotional. (To be quite frank, I don't know which is worst.) I never cheated in a relationship, which is why I stayed single. (I don't believe in cheating, I'm all for commitment when I'm committed.) But, in my dating process I've been through a lot.
Each guy who has been in my life I've taken something from them and use it in my life. They each had something different and unique to bring to the table which makes me long for them to be around. But, as I sit back and think, I think about the reasons why they were in my life at that time. Each guy had a significant purpose in my Quest of life to help me discover something about me. It may sound selfish, but it's true. They brought something out of me that I didn't know was there. Or they introduced me to something that I eventually made my own. To me, that is what relationships (with or without the title) is all about. Their about sharing, putting each other on to that "New New."
The reason why I'm posting this is because I believe in having AWESOME relationships. Being beautiful inside and out isn't bad. Caring for that person and telling them you care shows that your interested. People shouldn't have to wonder about the "ifs" when your involved with someone. Rather your in a committed or non-committed relationship, keep the door open for communication. Trust me when I say this, talking helps the soul move on baby! Because we all want a clarity and understanding about why this or that didn't work. It helps the other person move on too. So don't be so selfish and enjoy life's beauties!
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